Have errands to run? Maybe a touch of room in the budget? Add in a trip to that coffee or tea shop, nail salon, or take in a movie. How about 30 minutes or so at the local book store (if you like that sort of thing and won’t be tempted to blow a budget)?
Is your budget a bit tight? Perhaps you could try an impromptu walk through the park with a snack and a drink. Take the dog or kids outside, take a bike ride. Crappy weather and no outside time? Grab a warm blanket run it through the dryer, grab a cup of warm tea or coffee, and read a book, watch some shows, enjoy a movie, cuddle with a loved one.
Find some time to do things you love, write, paint, draw you don’t even have to be good at it, just do it for fun! Cook for yourself or others. Sometimes I just love to bake or make a lovely meal and watch others enjoy it. Make a card for yourself or a friend. Paint your nails, paint your kids or friends nails (with permission of course). J Maybe garden, or clean up some indoor plants, give the pet a wash. Take an art class with a friend.
Pick up clutter. I cannot feel comfortable or think, let alone be happy surrounded by stuff. It can be around your small space, a room, or you can tidy your house. I find that I feel accomplished and happier after tidying up. This often goes smoother with some positive upbeat music. Spread out a favorite home fragrance, light some candles, refill those reed diffusers or home scents.
Practice “PLEASE” Skills
5) Get Healthy:
This one makes so much of a difference for me. I love my omega 3’s, multi-vitamins, and lots of clear liquids. Try your local gym, a fitness class, yoga — anything to get out there and get going. I can wake up down and out, hit the gym, and feel so energized and ready for my day.
I hope you enjoyed some of my personal favorites and that they can help you, too. No matter what the situation, take a moment big or small, let yourself know you do matter, that it’s ok to feel good, to be happy, and treat yourself special for no reason at all.
It is possible to have a good day no matter the situation!
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