Understanding BPD Ghosting and Abandonment It is incredibly difficult when someone suddenly disappears or ‘ghosts’ from your life. This experience, often called BPD ghosting, is especially painful once you have risked your heart. When you have become emotionally attached, the silence feels heavy. When you live with BPD traits or emotional sensitivity, rejection feels intense. Even […]
Understanding BPD Jealousy and Emotional Intensity Jealousy and insecurity are normal emotions. However, when you live with BPD jealousy, these feelings can be much stronger. For those with BPD traits or trauma, the intensity can feel truly unbearable. When a partner feels this intense BPD jealousy, it can be confusing for a couple. This is true even […]
Trigger Warning (TW): This post contains content that may be triggering for some readers. The scene: I’m riding in the passenger side of my boyfriend’s Lexus. The sun has gone down. He says it’s time for him to go home. Going home meant he would be leaving me and spending the night with his wife. Although […]
Many people with Borderline Personality Disorder have an intense fear of abandonment. Many times, this is because we experienced it early on in life. Many of us have even developed a keen ability to detect what we perceive to be behaviors that might precede someone abandoning us. While I still experience these extra sensitivities from […]
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